The Secret to Manifesting Love: Are Your Thoughts, Feelings, and Actions in Alignment?

Manifesting a relationship may seem simple in theory: align your thoughts, feelings, and actions to attract the love you desire. However, many people find themselves frustrated, doing "all the right things" but still struggling to meet the right partner. If this resonates with you, chances are you might be out of alignment without even realising it.

Let’s break down what true alignment looks like when manifesting love—and how to shift from a state of frustration to flow.

Are You Really in Alignment?

Picture this: you’re ready for a long-term relationship. Every day, you affirm that you're going to meet your soulmate. You’re on dating apps, accepting dates even when you’d rather stay home, showing commitment to finding love. But something feels off.

The dates are lackluster, you’re not meeting the right people, and when friends ask about your love life, you admit, “It’s hard—there are no good ones left.” You feel discouraged when dates don’t work out and tell yourself, “No one likes me.”

Eventually, you spiral into frustration, questioning why dating seems so difficult when you're clearly ready.

Sound familiar?

The reality is that despite your efforts, you’re out of alignment.

Your conscious belief is: “I’m ready to meet my partner.”

But your subconscious belief is: “Dating is hard, all the good ones are gone, no one likes me, and time is running out.”

This mismatch creates low-vibration energy, which makes it harder to attract the love you want. You’re operating from a place of force, fear, and lack—energies that only push what you desire further away.

Shifting Into Alignment to Manifest Love

Now, let’s explore what being in true alignment looks like.

You still affirm daily that you’re going to meet your soulmate, but now you feel the energy of being loved and loving someone wholeheartedly.

You visualise yourself happy, in a fulfilling relationship, and trust that it will happen at the right time. You’re actively on the dating apps but take a break when your energy is off, knowing that forcing it will only attract more frustration.

You approach dating as a learning experience, only going on dates with people who genuinely intrigue you. You pay attention to red flags and steer clear of the people flying them. 

When you do go on a date, you enjoy the experience without attaching your self-worth to the outcome. If someone doesn’t ask for a second date, you don’t take it personally—you simply know they weren’t the right fit. And when friends ask about your love life, you say, “It’s going great,” and leave it at that. There’s no need to justify your experience or share every detail.

In this aligned state, you trust that the universe is working in your favour. You live a life you love, feeling confident that you’ll meet your partner when the time is right, and most importantly, you know you’re worth and value.  

Your conscious belief becomes: “I’m ready for love, and I love my life.”

Your subconscious belief shifts to: “I know my worth and trust that I’ll meet the right person for me at the right time.

Your energy rises to a high-vibration state, and that is where manifesting magic happens.

Why Alignment Is Everything

The shift from low vibration (fear, lack, and force) to high vibration (trust, joy, and abundance) is the key to manifesting love. When you’re in alignment, you’re no longer operating from a place of scarcity. You understand that you live in an abundant universe where love is not limited, and that the right person will come into your life at the perfect time—for both of you.

And here's something important: your soulmate exists! I know when you’ve had bad dating experiences it can feel like your future partner is a mythical being but they are very real and are out there living their life on a collision course to meet you - they just might not be ready to meet you yet.   They might still be healing, growing, or not yet available. They could be in another city or country, or simply not emotionally ready for the relationship they’re meant to have with you. That’s why trusting the timing of the universe is crucial.

In the meantime, it’s important to focus on yourself—live your life fully and invest in your own growth. Root out any lingering subconscious beliefs that are blocking you from love. Heal from past dating and relationship experiences so those patterns don’t repeat in the future. By doing this you’ll  become the best version of yourself, ready to attract the best version of your partner.

Ready to Get Into Alignment and Manifest Love?

If you’ve been feeling stuck in your dating life and can’t figure out why love isn’t flowing your way, it’s time to get back into alignment. It’s not just about affirmations or action—it's about shifting your beliefs, emotions, and energy to match the love you desire.

Trust that your partner is out there, and they’re on their way. But before they arrive, make sure you're ready. Work on releasing fear, scarcity, and frustration, and step into a state of trust, abundance, and joy.

Need help making that shift? Book a free discovery call, and let’s chat.

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I can guide you through the process of getting your thoughts, feelings, and energy back into alignment so you can manifest the love you deserve.

Your soulmate is waiting. Now it's time for you to align with them!

Lucy xx